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Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!On the street, I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.
Furthermore, I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism in Colombia and I know that there are many strip clubs and brothels in Medellin; however, strippers and prostitutes are not the types of girls that I date, nor is it something I would like to promote, therefore, I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! Regarldess, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage.I speak Spanish fluently; therefore, I can’t play the “…no jaaabl0 Españoler mucho bueno. I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.